is_remote should be F, and is, F
sender added peer: endpoint=127.0.0.1 msg=handshake successful
is_remote should be T, and is, T
sender got pong: my-message, 1
is_remote should be T, and is, T
sender got pong: my-message, 2
is_remote should be T, and is, T
sender got pong: my-message, 3
is_remote should be T, and is, T
sender got pong: my-message, 4
sender lost peer: endpoint=127.0.0.1 msg=lost connection to remote peer