Change over to whitelisting clang-tidy options instead of blacklisting

.clang-tidy

@@ -1,40 +1,4 @@
-Checks: '*,
+Checks: '-*,
-         -abseil-string-find-startswith,
+         bugprone-*,
-         -bugprone-exception-escape,
+         clang-analyzer-*,
-         -bugprone-macro-parentheses,
+         performance-*'
-         -bugprone-suspicious-semicolon,
-         -cert-err58-cpp,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-avoid-c-arrays,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-avoid-goto,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-avoid-magic-numbers,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-macro-usage,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-non-private-member-variables-in-classes,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-pro-bounds-array-to-pointer-decay,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-pro-bounds-constant-array-index,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-pro-bounds-pointer-arithmetic,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-pro-type-const-cast,
-         -cppcoreguidelines-pro-type-reinterpret-cast,
-         -fuchsia-default-arguments,
-         -fuchsia-multiple-inheritance,
-         -fuchsia-overloaded-operator,
-         -fuchsia-statically-constructed-objects,
-         -fuchsia-trailing-return,
-         -google-build-using-namespace,
-         -google-explicit-constructor,
-         -google-readability-braces-around-statements,
-         -hicpp-avoid-c-arrays,
-         -hicpp-avoid-goto,
-         -hicpp-braces-around-statements,
-         -hicpp-explicit-conversions,
-         -hicpp-no-array-decay,
-         -llvm-header-guard,
-         -misc-macro-parentheses,
-         -misc-non-private-member-variables-in-classes,
-         -misc-suspicious-semicolon,
-         -misc-unused-parameters,
-         -modernize-avoid-c-arrays,
-         -modernize-use-nodiscard,
-         -readability-braces-around-statements,
-         -readability-container-size-empty,
-         -readability-implicit-bool-conversion,
-         -readability-magic-numbers'