Update .clang-tidy to have performance-* enabled with some exclusions

.clang-tidy

@@ -1,17 +1,11 @@
 Checks: [-*,
          bugprone-*,
-         performance-avoid-endl,
-         performance-enum-size,
-         performance-faster-string-find,
-         performance-for-range-copy,
-         performance-inefficient-vector-operation,
-         performance-move-const-argument,
-         performance-unnecessary-copy-initialization,
-         performance-inefficient-string-concatenation,
+         performance-*,
 
          # Skipping these temporarily because they are very noisy
          -bugprone-narrowing-conversions,
          -bugprone-unchecked-optional-access,
+         -performance-unnecessary-value-param,
 
          # The following cause either lots of pointless or advisory warnings
          -bugprone-easily-swappable-parameters,
@@ -30,5 +24,9 @@ Checks: [-*,
          -bugprone-undefined-memory-manipulation,
          -bugprone-pointer-arithmetic-on-polymorphic-object,
          -bugprone-empty-catch,
-         -bugprone-exception-escape
+         -bugprone-exception-escape,
+
+         # This one returns a bunch of findings in DFA and the sqlite library.
+         # We're unlikely to fix either of them.
+         -performance-no-int-to-ptr,
 ]